Foreign Student

Dear Foreign Student,

It would be a disservice for Alice to try to understand and analyze your problem from one paragraph on the computer. It seems complex, and like you need to spend some time thinking on your own. If you like to write, write down lists of the advantages and disadvantages of being with each woman. If you like to talk, talk it out with a close friend or a professional counselor. Don't hold it in, and try to be as honest with yourself as you possibly can. And remember, you can make your own choice, but the other person will still have to make hers. Try to enter into the next stage of your life with few expectations and much flexibility. Good luck,