I Want My Foreskin Back!
Reviewed by
Craig H. Kliger, MD
Aug. 21, 2000 -- Some adult men so lament their parents' decision to
circumcise them when they were infants that they go to great lengths to correct
the deed. Some do it for aesthetic reasons and others to enhance their sexual
experience.
R. Wayne Griffiths is 67 years old. He was circumcised as an infant and
remembers feeling envious of boys with foreskins, even as a Cub Scout. Later,
as an adult, he heard that sex with a foreskin was better and began to wonder
if there was anything he could do. Thirteen years ago, he finally decided to
take action. He tried a number of methods for stretching his foreskin, but had
little success. "In those days you were pretty much on your own,"
Griffiths says.
Then he devised his own technique that he says worked very well. Now that he
is "restored," Griffiths says, and his glans (the head of the penis) is
insulated from dryness and chafing, his penis is far more sensitive than it
used to be. Sex is "more intense," he says, "and just a lot more
pleasurable." The transformation was so profound for Griffiths that he went
on to found the National Organization of Restoring Men (NORM), a nonprofit
group that supports men who are considering or engaged in foreskin
restoration.
There are two basic options for "restoring" foreskin. The most
popular method is a "do-it-yourself" approach that costs little money
and doesn't involve surgery, though it can take a while to get results. This
technique requires stretching the skin from the base of the penis over the
glans and holding it in place long enough to allow new tissue to grow.
There are a number of commercially available systems for holding and
stretching the skin. Some involve silicon or metal rings that stretch the
"foreskin"-to-be. Others employ cones to accomplish the same thing. And
still others use metal balls or other weights hung off the end of the penis to
facilitate stretching. Strange as it sounds, some men prefer to modify tuba or
trombone mouthpieces and fasten them over the glans with tape, stretching skin
from the base of the penis over the outside of the mouthpiece.
Griffiths, a construction inspector in Atherton, Calif., invented a
restoration system called Foreballs, which employs two stainless steel ball
bearings. Other systems have names like Recap-ez, Tug-ahoy, and Tugger/Pud.
Because all restoration-by-stretching goes on outside of the medical
establishment, there are no official statistics on the number of men who apply
these techniques. Based on sales of restoration devices and people joining
NORM, however, Griffiths estimates that there are about 20,000 men worldwide
who have been or are actively engaged in foreskin restoration.
There is really no medical consensus on the safety of stretching penile
tissue, or whether it actually enhances sexual pleasure. But that's because
doctors haven't paid attention to the issue, says Griffiths. Indeed, most
doctors interviewed for this story said that though they saw no particular
risks, they were not familiar enough with the procedure to offer an opinion on
its safety. One Atherton, Calif., physician, Morris Sorrells, MD, has seen a
number of men undergoing foreskin restoration by stretching, and he does not
consider the procedure risky as long as men don't hang too much weight from
their penises, use stretching devices that restrict the flow of blood, or
persist if the procedure becomes painful.
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