Don't let the greenbacked Grinch steal your Christmas! Talk with your fiancee about your view of the imbalance in your familial gift giving. Family traditions, politics, and expectations can be hard to change, but maybe you could reach a compromise; spend a little more on your relatives and a little less on hers. Your family could get a few more presents, and her side might learn that a good time can still be had by all, even if there are fewer boxes under the tree. Use your holiday dilemma as a springboard for important conversations about everyday compromise, sharing, and financial matters before they become coal in your relationship stocking.

If reasoning with your fiancee doesn't work, have Santa and his/her reindeer deliver this holiday ditty :