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Latchkey Leftovers
Reviewed by
Gary D. Vogin, MD
Oct. 29, 2001 -- It's 5:30 PM: Do you know where your teenagers
are?
No? In that case they may be more likely to take a joyride in
your spare car, raid your liquor cabinet, fall in with the wrong crowd, or even
become a crime victim in an unsafe part of town.
With dual-income and single-parent families on the rise, more
and more preteens and teenagers come home to an unsupervised house after
school. These are America's 7.5 million latchkey kids.
Schools, religious institutions, local libraries, non-profit
organizations, and commercial establishments have all kinds of after school
programs for elementary school kids. But programs for latchkey teens seem to be
few and far between.
And that's more than unfortunate. Research shows that children
aged 12 to 18 are not just more likely to engage in risky behaviors, but they
are also more likely to benefit from positive mentoring. In a study published
by the American Academy of Pediatrics, researchers found that eighth-graders
who are unsupervised more than 10 hours a week are about 10% more likely to try
marijuana, and twice as likely to smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol as are
eighth-graders who are never without adult supervision.
"One of the major risk factors for drug use and teenage
pregnancy is unsupervised kids, so if your child is out there unsupervised,
they are at high risk to get in trouble after school and before a parent gets
home," says Phillippe B. Cunningham, PhD, associate professor of psychiatry
and behavioral sciences at the Medical University of South Carolina in
Charleston.
So short of quitting your job, what can you do to make sure
your teens are making the most of their free time?
Ask Not What You Can Do For Your Teens, But What Your Teens Can Do For You
Keeping teens safe starts with "saying 'we need you' as
well as trying to make darn sure that there is another adult in that child's
life whom they respect, such as a coach or a teacher," says John Calhoun,
president and CEO of the National Crime Prevention Council in Washington D.C.,
a organization aimed at creating safer communities.
"Rather than doing something to teens, let's change our
lens to what teens can do for us," he tells WebMD.
Enter community service. "We have found that the number of
teens who want to roll up their sleeves and get positively involved in the
community is off the charts," Calhoun says.
And now that a lot of schools require community service to
graduate, it's a win-win situation. "If your teen is in a context where
something positive is going on, his or her chances of being a victim are
dramatically reduced," Calhoun says.
"You can really get kids monitored if you get them involved
in community services at retirement homes and churches or try to find a niche
for a child if they have a particular interest like animals," Cunningham
tells WebMD.
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